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Tuesday, April 15, 2008

Lifes Like That - 1



Hay all,

I have been thinking for a long time to write something like this. I want to have topics and voice out my own thoughts and thinking so i thought of this "Lifes Like That".. You may agree with me and you may disagree, but for no matter what i say, it doesn't meant to hurt or insult anyone if i happen to say something.

Today's topic: "it doesn't pay to help.. even if its your love ones."

True.. I believe sometimes there is no return when you help out someone out of kindness and willingness.. its just the happy moment or feeling you would have that make you feel great ?
so what if you have to help someone unwilling and you have to do it.. for me, if its something that i don't think i wanna do or its being force.. i wont do it.. that's my stand.. but maybe at jobs you have no say.. but that would have a different scenario..

we would think now about helping and don't expect any returns.. when i help someone.. i don't expect returns because i know life don't return u much.. and living in this world everyone needs help here and there.. who knows next time you will need help from someone whom you have helped before ?

everyone have different thinking and mindset.. this i understand like long again facing pple in this life.. and this is where you learn to accept each other.. (i may be seems to getting out of the topic but it will turns to one big round..) so when people asked you for help you will be more willingly.. for some people.. they will help as long as its their family or friends asked.. for some.. they would not but do it the opposite way.. helping people whom they are not close too but not their own family or even friends...

and so what even if you help them? some people would not have the same concept as you like helping when you can... they will even say "you help me once, i help u once back".. making it like a trade.. should one understand the meaning of help? i don't think you should expect much returns but i would expect you to know that you should help whenever you can too.. it may not be helping me back but others... must help be a calculative thing?
even to your own loved ones ?

sometimes it really bugs me why must i help in stuffs when people don't appreciate or think you are doing it because of them and wanting a better life for them.. its seems to be hard for pple to understand certain things.. but yet it is so simple... for example my friend has problem in relationship.. gave advice.. wanted to help her out... but rejected.. fine.. i shall not waste my effort in helping.. another example.. wanting my brother to learn to help whenever they can... talk nicely.. scold them.. nag them.. all wont work.. dun tell me i should give them sweets at their age to teach right? @ this point i feel family cannot be compared important in their life.. friends and girlfriends seems to be in the top...

haii.... its the process in life...

i ever wanted to not be bother about anything in my life and mind my own business.. like when im younger... i bother nothing but only me.. anything that bugs me.. anyone.. will get it from me.. i used to expect more from people den giving.. thats when im young.. now.. i will turn back normal like the very next day.. because why must i be so calculative of what others hurt me.. when i can enjoy my life and rather waste my time on bothering.. you may or may not get the point.. but sometimes you will just feel so... like heart is so dead.. whats with life.. but you still have to live..

maybe working in a different techniques will work?
im doing my own testing... but at the same time... i wanna give myself a break and pack my thoughts..
don't have to ask me "are you OK?" or "why.. what happen?"
because nothing did.. and I'm fine... just blog that Lifes Like That... to make us ponder more on life... think too much ?

probably yes... but not entirely wrong to think..
I'm just a girl who thinks a lot and have my own Way of Life Knowledge..
Call me stupid.. Call me crazy.. but i have my point...

Blogging Queen ah !
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