Hmmm.. Do you cherish your relationship with your sliblings or even parents ?
I do...
Today, I sort of quarrel with my sister.. but i didnt raise my voice.. as in like talking back to her nia.. because i think in my stand that i'm not in wrong.. and did not want to admit/stop myself from talking.. she keeps on saying i'm irritating and why cant i just stop talking but i want to be reasonable here.. if i do not have fault / did not angered you.. please DO NOT make a fuss or throw your temper at me unless i did make you angry !! I told her she is in a bad mood and shouldn't have used her voice on me and she claims she not in bad mood and to me staying with her for so long... i jolly know well when she is raising her voice and when she is not..!!!
All i did was just talking nicely to her and just asked a question and all i get is.. "Shut up la you !", "You are very irritating lo !", "You are so childish !!"..
The question: "Why you pack the clothes yourself ? Why dun ask auntie pack ?"
Anyway.. she say i childish because i talked back at her and also saying "i eat finish nothing to do arh.." but at that point i got nothing better to do.. and i'm doing my hair.. I even tell her to ask my brother if she is in bad mood not lo..
Ok.. nuff said !! We stopped at a point of time.. i think she didnt wanna bother liao.. hahahaha..
Well.. den i thought of my friend.. she also quarrel with her slibling.. but bad thing is on a special occassion.. to me.. i will not quarrel at that point of time like she did.. because its a way of respecting the elders.. not trying to mean anything my friend.. all have their ways of handling things.. at that point of time she also think she have no fault.. i told her for me.. i will stop somehow because of the occassion.. but i think she also got think a bit wrong althought she is correct/right about the matter..
Quarreling can be bad for relationships.. Depends on what matter.. I still love my family no matter what.. I want to keep my family together also no matter what.. Althought i dun think is my fault just now.. I want to say "Sorry" to my sister.. Cause i should not have said things back to you... But please !! if you want me to stop talking / not bother you.. you should have used a better tone and better words.. I'm not a person that will stop when i got no fault.. the more u are bad to me.. i will treat you the same and worst !! I dun take hard.. i take soft..
Should said "Can you dont bother me ? I'm in a bad mood and dont want to talk.."
People see / hear this also feel alright.. Just want you to know that.. You are not alone..
To my friend, Cherish your family because you are born to be with them.. at times you might be angry with them / quarrel.. but you still must maintain relationship.. Once lost, you can never get it back.. Thats what i believe !
I'm aint a christian nor wadever.. Free-thinker = pineapple !!
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